TTK Cards

Things to Know Before You Say “Go”

Powerful Questions To Ask Before You Give Your Heart Away

Boxed set includes: 192-page book and a deck of 76 cards. This product offers individuals a unique method of examining partnership. Each card contains an essential question important to ask when entering or deepening a relationship. PLAY WITH THE CARDS.

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Things to Know Before You Say “Go”


“These cards  are great.
A most  illuminating  way to vet 
out any 
relationship.”

DR. CHRISTIANE NORTHRUP
MD & Author of “Women’s Bodies, Women’s Wisdom”

Cards can be sorted into piles based on varying question or intentions, such as:

  • What information matters most to me in a romantic relationship?
  • How does my current love interest match up with my values and desires?
  • Why did my last relationship fail? What did I neglect to understand?
  • Do I have what it takes to create a healthy relationship?
  • What do I want my daughter or son to understand about partnership choices?

By examining the cards and answering the 76 questions, you enter into a very personal and extraordinary exploration of values, desires, and limits. You will discover how much you know or don’t know about your expectations for future, current, or past relationships. The cards will stir deep dialogue with another person and/or they can be used in personal contemplation and reflection. No matter how they are sorted, explored, or discussed, these cards are sure to lead you to new knowledge about yourself and relationships.

The accompanying book explains the importance of each question and areas for further exploration. The cards and book are packaged in a sturdy box for use over and over again. The Things to Know Before You Say “Go” set sells for $29.95, plus $4.95 shipping and handling charge, for a total of $34.90.

You may order the cards at our online store. If you live in Portland and wish to save shipping charges, you may pick up the cards at my office. Email us or call 503-236-0855 to arrange. The deck is also available at the following Portland bookstores: Powell’s Books, New Renaissance Books, and In Other Words. You may also purchase the cards through Amazon.

Read a review of the Things to Know Before You Say “Go” from the Oregonian’s Omama Blog. (This came out in print in the Oregonian’s Living Section on Monday, February 13, 2012).

Watch Dr. Martindale discuss the development and use of the Things to Know Before You Say “Go” cards on youtube.

Watch Dr. Martindale’s interview discussing the Things to Know Before You Say “Go” cards.

Are you interested in the Parents Guide or the Professional Guide to using the Things to Know Before You Say “Go” cards? Send us an email and we will forward an epub version of the guide for FREE!

Are you teaching students about healthy relationships? You will find the Things to Know Before You Say “Go” Activity Book to be a helpful tool. This book is the 2012 Winner of the Innovation Award by the Association for Educational Publishing.

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